The Abandonment Continues

What is it about the current paradigm of abandonment parenting today ? I watch as a child is left in his cot clearly unhappy, uncomfortable and just wanting to be held by it's mother. He's coughed for his entire afternoon nap, and has had no real sleep. The choice to continue this game of "He'll eventually go to sleep" utterly disgusts me. Why is it that this child is rewarded for being a good boy, meaning "go to sleep because that's what good boys do" ?? Yet is put into a place of being a bad boy because he doesn't want to sleep, he just wants to be held and around people. Not only that, when he finally emerges his relatives then smother him to the point that their energy completely engulfs him. This wears him out. He has to first deal with NO attention, then MORE attention than he actually wants. Ironic isn't it that 5 minutes before they were all happy to give him NO attention.

Parenting these days only produces one thing. The same crap it produced the generation before. So now we find ourselves dealing with another abandoned child (the parent), who is now projecting the same sort of trauma onto the new generation. This abandonment comes in all shapes and sizes. The child soon realizes that he will be praised for acceptable behavior and penalized for so called "bad behavior". This all according to the society and deep socialization that takes place between 1 and 7. What a nightmare !!! If a child is crying, it is for a very good reason. Pick the child up and love it. Don't allow it to be abandoned and become the exact replica of it's parent. It makes me sick to the stomach to witness this behavior. And I see it over and over again. Abandonment causes what you are currently seeing in the world today. 

God knows what its doing to the child's heart. But then again, we all know what it's really doing don't we..........because EVERYTHING that we deal with on an adult level is the inner abandoned child, and it occurs deep within us all EVERYDAY..... 

Riding The Bike

Sometimes life stays still while observing things. Sometimes while you are sorting it all out you can arrive at some pretty huge discoveries. I know of one person who is constantly putting on the handbrake to discover what it's all about for himself. He goes through stuff that I've never seen anyone else do with such depth. Today it is frowned upon to stop your life and to go within. It goes against everything we are taught during socialization. For we are expected, by everyone around us, to do what they are doing, and that is to keep going without asking any questions. I see people who are trying to uphold this charade on a daily basis. They see only certain things, be it on social media or in real life social situations. These individuals are so caught up in this system of survival that they really never see the whole picture. Now, there are arguments to that say, yes, we need to keep going to become the ultimate human. I'll just put this into perspective first. Some of us are riding this bike. We constantly have to keep moving to keep the balance. If we don't, we fall over. What is wrong with voluntarily stopping the bike and getting off ?

The bike in my eyes is truly an illusion. Yet we all take it for a ride, sometimes for our entire life. There are other people who create the bike lanes for us too. From my research these people are not really creating these lanes in our best interest, far from it. What they've created, is these lanes with "distraction" written all over them. And with distraction comes the same old opinions and the inability to think for ourselves. If we constantly follow the same lanes (which the majority do) how can we expect to see any positive new growth. It's like a rose bush, if you leave it to just do it's thing it just rots, and never produces new stunning flowers. But some people never see the similarity with the rose bush. They will prune and trim the rose bush for a better yield next year, but never do the same thing on themselves. WHY? If you were told to prune yourself for a better outcome next year would you do it ? I know I would, and I know I do. But actually doing it is frowned upon, because your'e not in the same bike lane as the masses. If you stop riding in this lane you will see a dramatic improvement in your well being. We all need to prune our roses and that means doing something you were never taught to do. "Get off the bike"

Have you ever filled your hair with paint and used it as a brush ? I have, but until you stop and disregard what others think, and stop listening to others, "Including Me" you will never know what it's like to be the true you. The you that never went away and the part of you that is never embraced, the part of you that will ride the bike for a small period, but will always jump off it and be curious, the part of you that you have buried, yet the part of you that really is the basis for all that you do in a grown up body. Do we all not have a thing within us that is actually in charge of us, and that is still fully operational today ? This thing may live in a grown up body, but is far from grown up. We are being lead by the same entities who behave in the same way. They want us riding the bike, yet they've forgot how to ride the bike. Will you ever stop the bike and go and play in the sandpit ? Where the roots of your existence reside. Can you get off the bike and rebuild the sandcastle ? What is stopping you from stopping, and looking into a fresh pruning for next year ? Do you know what I'm talking about ?

The Deluge

Some days are truly not the best. If you're in touch with how you feel and not distracted, you'll know what I mean. With all these vibrational changes occurring in September, the odd day can be a nightmare. All of this vibrational change, can be rather overwhelming and heavy to deal with. Sometimes it can feel as though you're going completely backwards. Is it that way ? Or does it just seem that way ? Everyone around me seems to be all over the place too. Are you ? I mean look at all the shit going on globally. We've got war, refugees, leadership changes all sorts of unsettling stuff. How do we feel our way through it all ? I know there's changes, yet many do not and do not realize their behavior is because of this shift. I believe most of us (who are open) realize that it's a nightmare ride. What I will say is, I'm totally sick of all of it.

I've spent considerable time looking at all of this and to my surprise there are a few who are aware, but there a far more that have no idea. They just continue on projecting their pain and not really gaining anything to help themselves. I try to encourage people to help themselves and that it's OK to be down or up. It's just how you feel, but you've got to be honest with yourself. People constantly contact me with their problems and it wears me out. I've got enough of my own shit to integrate. But how can you say no ? The drain on me is immense and it takes days to get over the onslaught. What pisses me off is when I rarely rely on people to help me, they find it hard to do so. They never have the time. And if they do, they will encourage you one minute, let you get stuff going only to hit you with the opposite.

Below is what is occurring now, how are you coping with the deluge ?